Dear guys.... a ladies POV.

[heathersweet2eat]

Just a rant, not to put people off, but just a rant. Hear me out.

Men, the first thing you ask for are pictures. Everytime. Almost the first words "do you have pictures"? NEVER does the guy offer pictures of himself, or if so, it's rare and usually of his male member. Even after the woman has shown pics, often the guy doesn't show pics or even offer.

This isn't a meat market for your pleasure. We're all human beings. It's SO very rude, "PICS?" the first or second thing to come out of your mouth.

Women don't enjoy being hounded for photos from men who dont have their own photos, and it's also just rude. Sort of like, hey, show me pics and I'll decide if you're ugly and if I want to continue talking. it's just rude.

Talk to a woman, get to know her, then maybe ask if she has pics. It's a real turn off for a guy who Im's and immediately says "PICS?"

Also, understand that for most women, we get inundated with IM's. I can't even keep up sometimes. When you have 8 or 9 people coming at you at once, its hard. Please keep that in mind and be patient.

[twoforone100]

and the ones that go " cam "? or they ask questions that are answered on our profile... location etc... also we are clear we are not looking for guys.. it would help you and save you time if you just read the profile.

[nhra_fan]

couldn't have put it better thanks nothing bothers me more than going to chat room and getting all the guys hounding me im there to talk to friends and make new ones not to help get some guy hard or what ever there doing try getting to us before hand

[heathersweet2eat]

Thanks.

I thought some might feel the same. I think a lot of the people who do that are also the ones who are just here to cyber and want a photo to look at. Those living the lifestyle are more interested in being polite.

[bobsturm]

good to hear y'all's opinion....... and well said.

i like sharing pics, but usually don't offer to. but if i am asked, well i try to oblige.

[ilhotfella69]

I agree but then there are those of us trying to make friends on here and its hard to do when you are trying to say hello and whatever else and you basically get blown off because you are new, etc. I don't sit there and ask for pics or other things you say, but that doesn't seem to help strike up a conversation otherwise because I'm new here. So it doesn't always seem that the respectful way of doing things helps get to meet others either sometimes. Just a point of view.

[cowgirlcpl]

Just to add my two cents, the wife and I share the same id for all of our adult online fun and find it extremely annoying when people (yes, 99.9% are men) jump on and immediately say, "Got more pics?", no hello, no how are you?, no greeting of any sort, they just assume we are waiting for them to get online so that we can share our pictures. Most of the time if someone wants to chat and have a conversation I/we don't mind showing some pictures, moreso if they have pictures to share, but it really is downright rude to just ask for pictures straightaway. We also love the ones that get demanding about the pictures, you show them a couple, then they start asking, "Do you have any where she is...". We try to be polite, but c'mon, enough is enough.

[John Skolte]

Pictures are fine and I do enjoy them, but I have never asked for them. If they are available I will check them out, if not I will read whatever people are saying. That is why I am here in the first place....I enjoy the discussion. And I freely admit that much of what is said here is a hell of a turn on for this "old" man.

[biffytuna]

I think you are on with starting the discussion here. I personally do chat or cam, and maybe I should, but I'm here to meet people that are out to enjoy their sexual experience in life. I'm also here because the pictures are so amazing and real. I don't care for magazines or doctored up porn sites because I love the sexiness of a real woman. This site is even better because the all the beautiful women that post actually want to. Guess my point is that if all I wanted was pictures I would go somewhere else, the interaction and friendship is what keeps me here.

So on Men doing pictures, what do you ladies want to see. I've kept my to tributes and basic stuff, because I've never had any requests for anything other than a tribute. I want to give more to this site but I'm not sure what people really want to see from guys?

[rotarbiv]

Originally Posted by biffytuna

I think you are on with starting the discussion here. I personally do chat or cam, and maybe I should, but I'm here to meet people that are out to enjoy their sexual experience in life. I'm also here because the pictures are so amazing and real. I don't care for magazines or doctored up porn sites because I love the sexiness of a real woman. This site is even better because the all the beautiful women that post actually want to. Guess my point is that if all I wanted was pictures I would go somewhere else, the interaction and friendship is what keeps me here.

So on Men doing pictures, what do you ladies want to see. I've kept my to tributes and basic stuff, because I've never had any requests for anything other than a tribute. I want to give more to this site but I'm not sure what people really want to see from guys?

I also feel the same as Biffytuna. I dont do the chat thing, cause I am really looking to find people that may want to meet in person to experience and share their sexuality. As a male, I also have to ask what do you ladies or couples want to see? Face it, the ladies and couples have lots of options as to subject matter but I hate just posting or sharing a pic of my cock. I have some of me in thong and nude but am lost as to what to trade or post that doesnt seem repetative or "vulgar" i.e pictures of my erect penis.

Would appreciate some feedback and input.

Thanks